I have no clue how I ever manage to make friends. Or work in retail. Or function at all. Because I am terrified of people. I will sometimes find any excuse I can find not to be with people, even some of my very best friends. This is pretty much how all my friendships that have ended ended. Sometimes I’m strong, and I push myself, and I will be honest that that has led to many amazing things (Hi, Wench Posse). But a lot of times, I am made of suck.
The Hippy went out to smoke, because he’s gross like that. I doubt I had even really noticed that he was gone (it happens so frequently…) when I received a text that he was across the alley. He’s developed a friendship with the guy over there, which is awesome, because it’s nice to have allies… A few minutes later, he sent another message that I should go over. Excuse time. “I just put in a movie.” Which was, incidentally, true. I’d just put in The Emperor’s New Groove because recent llama talk got me jonesin’. But really, it’s a DVD. I can watch it any time. I just didn’t feel comfortable going over there.
Just a few minutes ago… About 2.5 hours from the first time he told me to come out, he came in and told me to come out again. Again I protested, this time telling him the truth. He kept saying that the guy was really nice (I don’t doubt that, I’ve met him briefly, and The Hippy has always had good things to say about him). And I kept saying that I feel really stupid because I never talk and that weirds people out. It’s not easy to explain to people why I don’t talk. It’s easier just to say that I’m a fabric ninja. (As far as I know, there is no real “reason” why I don’t talk. Mostly I never developed the small talk skill, but fabric ninja is cooler sounding than “I don’t know.”)
So now, I’m sitting in my living room, watching Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, feeling like an idiot. I don’t really believe in medication… Something about ignoring underlying problems and just covering things up while poisoning the body…. (Remember, despite his nickname, I’m the hippie around here…) However, I could go for some anxiety meds about now.